If someone has decided to breakup with you, begging is not going to change their mind.
Begging and pleading makes you look like a needy person. Do you think they want to breakup because they want you to beg them to take them back? And even if your begging worked, it’s going to lead to a relationship where you will end up being a doormat.
In either case, you are just going to get hurt and not get what you want; a committed relationship with your ex.
If you think that by being friends with your ex, you can stay in their lives and hopefully get back together again, you are just plain wrong.
By being friends you are not giving yourself and your ex enough time and space to heal.
Sometimes, you just can’t close that chapter unless you get another try.
If you think this is one of those times then you are in the right place.
Breakup is hard as it is, especially if you are still obsessing over your ex and wondering all the time whether or not they miss you. In many cases, they rush into it too soon and things get too serious really fast. In almost all the cases of rebound relationship, people soon realize that this new relationship isn’t right for them and end it.
On top of that, if your ex starts dating someone else, it’s almost feels like someone punched you really hard in your stomach (while wearing a wolverine claw). So, even if your ex starts dating someone new, do not freak out.
And later on at night, that person gets drunk and calls you and start saying complete and utter non-sense. Would it make you want to start a new relationship with them?
Texting your ex all the time and calling them drunk is only going to make them less attracted to you. You also need to give yourself some time without your ex.
If they do commit to you, it will probably be an unhappy, smothering or even abusive relationship. If you want to get your ex back and give it a real chance, please do not become doormat.
And you know what happens to a relationship where one person is a doormat? There are so many ways to contact a person these days, it’s almost ridiculous.
It’s just a rebound relationship and it will end soon.