Ladies, take it from someone who has been there, please run away if a majority of these signs apply to your current guy. It's so sad, but there are guys out there who slot their Tuesday girl, Wednesday girl, etc. Ladies, he can only give the work and travel excuse so much without it becoming obvious that he might be blowing you off for another date. Could be cool and totally okay if he's reaching out at a decent time, but if he's reaching out pretty late, you know it's a hook up..he might just be scrolling through his phone to pick which girl he wants to play with that night. He is checking his phone while with you, or frequently stepping away to the bathroom on a date (to probably check texts from other women).
It's not worth the pain and heartbreak, and there are a lot of guys out there who will treat you well. If you are in a relationship where you notice this pattern, strongly request to spend time together on a weekend. Remember: if he is really into you seriously, he will MAKE time to see you. I once dated a guy that kept making the excuse that it was business calls.
It's important that you tell them - as often as needed - that they're not alone!
Try to always communicate in a way where they don't feel any kind of judgment or pressure from you, but instead they feel that you trust them and they can come to you if they decide to do so.
Both addiction and depression need to be taken very seriously, and the key is to ensure your loved one that you'll always be there if and when they need you.
If they simply want to just talk to someone, or need any kind of support, they can always count on you.
The majority of us have been in these sort of situations where we are unknowingly dating players.
This article will hopefully help you to notice the red flags to be on the lookout for when starting to date someone. If you confront him on it and he says he will accept later, but does not following the reminder, then you know something is more than likely up.2. Pay attention to if he only wants to see you on weekdays.A player is always chasing the next girl he sees in a skirt.If he’s not talking about getting serious, he isn’t serious about the relationship.He’s bored and this is the only time he doesn't have anything "better" to do.He’s not interested in spending quality time with you.Unfortunately, both addiction and depression can be treated only if the person realizes that they need help, and decides to go to a professional.