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Also, if you’re not expecting to be “just friends” with someone then you should let them know that the first time you guys talk on the phone or have a cup of coffee.

Most of the time people get trapped in the friend zone because they never let their intentions be known from the beginning.

There’s no definitive guide on what to do and what not to do for us believers because the word “dating” isn’t even in the bible. What we call dating nowadays crosses too many lines.

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Trusting your heart can lead anyone into making bad decisions. Can you really say that you have “the heart” figured out?

When we say “trust your heart” what we really mean is “trust how you feel” and without me referring to any scripture right now ask yourself, “Has trusting how I felt led me in the wrong direction before? We’ve all been in relational situations where we’ve found out we were wrong, but if you let our feelings tell it, that was the person we thought we’d spend the rest of our lives with.

Meaning one moment one of them have come over to enjoy a movie, and the next moment you find yourself repenting in the morning.

Try telling the person that you just “Netflix and Chilled” with that you would see them today, but you have a movie date with someone else. Set “dating” guidelines, and define what dating looks like for you. Take ALL the romantic, touchy-feely stuff out of the equation so lines don’t get crossed or blurred.

These are real questions, questions that I dealt with when I started dating and through my experiences I can try my best to tell you, not what to do, but what NOT to do in the process.

Is this “dating” thing pretty much trial and error, and we’ll figure it out along the way?

Women on the other hand, get emotionally involved quickly even if you guys have never kissed. You might not fully agree with this viewpoint but you have to take it into consideration at least. Would you be more careful about how you treated your sister than some random girl?

If this person is a believer, then she is technically your sister in Christ. We think that soul ties happen when sex happens, but on the contrary, soul ties can happen even if you’re never sexually intimate with a person.[shadowbox]1 Samuel 18:1, “And it came to pass, when he had made an end of speaking unto Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.”[/shadowbox]Jonathan loved David like he loved his own self. Sounds a lot like, “Love your neighbor as yourself” to me.

Men, if you know that you purely just interested in getting to know her then tell her that.

If you’re single right now and you haven’t found someone that you’re ready to be exclusive with then the person you’re dating should know that from the beginning. Because figuring it out leaves room for their own interpretation and you could be saying and doing something that is leading them on unintentionally.

We think that just “sex” create soul ties but that is not true.